@loganb sorry to read about your fil. Hope all goes well!
Thank you!
Prayers for a good diagnosis!
Much appreciated! No "diagnosis" yet but have more info then we did....update below
I f'n HATE cancer - lost both parents to it. I'm praying you get good news.
Very sorry to hear that...its one of those clubs nobody wants membership in and it's far to flipping full and a line out the door with new people getting forced into it. Using this analogy I think we are now in the club....but milling by the door and trying to figure out what group or table we are gonna hang out at
Logan, nothing else matters. Do what you can to support your wife and her mother because this is one of those real problems that money might not be able to fix. Here's hoping you get good news from the specialists.
I wish you weren't right here....but as usual you are. It was a surprisingly good last 48 hrs all things considered...update below
Really sorry to hear that, Logan. I can relate. My mother-in-law (60 yrs old) has pancreatic cancer, and was diagnosed a week after my son was born a little over a year ago. What was supposed to be a joyous time for us was definitely clouded by that emotional rollercoaster, especially for my wife, who also carries the same genetic mutation that caused it. Not trying to write a sob story, it just hit on a personal note for me. It's definitely shocking when someone you thought was otherwise healthy starts having serious problems all of a sudden.
That being said, there's no way to know what you're dealing with until you get the full diagnosis, and it's my belief that it doesn't do any good to assume the worst. Easier said than done. But, there are benign brain tumors, and I personally know someone who survived brain cancer in college. Even if it is cancer, a diagnosis isn't the end, and it's hard to predict the exact course a disease will take in each individual case.
I agree with Bob that the best thing you can do is be emotional support for your wife and family. And I'm also hoping for good news for you.
First off thanks for taking the time to share....so sorry to hear you're also going thru a similar situation on multiple levels there. I hope the no longer that little, little one helps to bring some smiles and joy to her and all around when it's needed most. The main driver to moving to Omaha(well after her office location being close and position cut) was to be closer to family, this isn't the type of scenario we wanted to be closer for...but you don't get to pick it so we take it as it comes.
Well it's been a bit of a whirlwind, but father in law went from almost unintelligible and baffling behavior to mostly "normal" in about 72 hrs....I love pharmacology.
Short story...swelling/inflammation from the masses appears to have been the cause for many of the changes in behavior...as steroids to reduce the swelling has remarkably improved his condition at a remarkable pace. He actually got discharged this afternoon and is home tonight and will have turkey and pie with family tomorrow...which compared to what we had on Monday is still hard to fathom
Now, we still don't know what it is. They believe it's originated in the brain which makes it brain cancer vs another type that spread to the brain. Biopsy is next step to determine exact type, however it's 2 weeks out due to backlog at the hospital he was admitted to so we have gotten a referral for a 2nd opinion at the premier cancer/brain surgery hospital in the area. Hopefully we can all agree on what medical team will be point moving forward and efficiently move to the official diagnoses and treatment plan stage of this. But had you told us on Monday he'd be home on Wednesday...we'd have suggested you get admitted too! Lots to be thankful for even in a crappy year
In related but not on topic...remember grade school germ lessons. Cover your mouth, wash your hands etc etc. After seeing how full this hospital is with teenagers and adults with RSV who need to be there, flu that regressed to pneumonia and they're now on oxygen...its not even December...lord help the healthcare staff and the patients when January hits.
When we were in the NICU, this was the preferred hand sanitizer of the NICU staff. They had 2 different types at all rooms/sinks but this was the one staff preferred due to being gentler on the skin. If it was good enough for premie babies its good enough for me was my logic, so this is what's at our sinks, in the cars and when I get a couple minutes will have at the door from garage to the house
Happy Thanksgiving too all and to all a good night!