You cannot adequately torque anything with anti-seize and there is a good chance of stretching the threads.
Wrong. There is a simple torque correction formula for various thread lubricants. Fasteners don't self loosen due to anti seize, they loosen if the pre load is insufficient.
From another long winded thread about the exact topic:
Re: Torque number with Anti-seize
The torque required for a bolted joint design comes from a long string of calculations, but boils down to a simple linear equation.
T = Wp x K x dn
Where T=torque; Wp=fastener preload; K=torque coeff; dn=diameter
The factor that changes with dry vs lubricated fasteners is the "torque coefficient" and is published for a variety of cases. Various values exist, mine are taken from DuPont Engineering Specification (10 pages of calcs). Examples:
Dry steel fasteners: K=0.20
Lightly oiled steel: K=0.15
Cad Plated: K=0.14
Anti Seize on steel: K=0.13 (as published by Bostik for their Never Seez products)
Graphite & mineral oil: K=0.10
Using Never Seize versus dry uncoated steel, multiply the specified torque by 0.65.
A very light coating on the threads and head to prevent corrosion and/or galling is all that's needed. As is the case with most Anti Seize applications, a little goes a long way.