The current issue doesn’t revolve around any customer or job. It is all Dad and his “I want it now” behavior, yesterday I spent almost two hours getting the sander setup, the truck is still sitting there, now two hours doesn’t seem like much time, but when the day is less than 9 hours of daylight, it is almost a quarter of that time.
He has priorities that change daily, he questions everything I do, it is so frustrating. Unfortunately, the only way for me to break things off would be to move everything off the Hill and go completely to the SG and that would be almost impossible, or at least catastrophic for me this winter. I have to continue to deal with him, unless he sees exactly what I am doing, he thinks I do nothing. When he gives me a task to do, he thinks it takes minutes, in reality most things take months. I usually have to get other people involved, then you are at their mercy as well. Currently I have two separate banks and accounts that are in process of swapping, I have to get payroll swapped before the end of the year, this is just the tip of the iceberg, I can’t mentally or physically do everything, yet I have to.
This is on top of anything I need to do for myself. I try and steal the good weather to get things done, but it is getting to the point where I won’t be able to use the good weather days for anything but paperwork too. When I try and explain that I can’t do everything, Dad acts like I am not doing enough, he thinks he is paying me for nothing.
XJ, lots of good advice, only a portion of it can be followed. The tower dismantling is holding up some serious money, can’t get it until the job is done, with everything that has been going on, not having that money is going to start to hurt bad January 1st.
The office is this temporary mess, the primary office is supposed to be redone, so far the electrician has upgraded the panel and separated the meter, added all new lights, the HVAC guy is scheduled for April, but we have it figured out, the guy leveling the floor and fixing the drywall is supposed to start soon. Until that space is done, I have a mess in my makeshift office due to the shear quantity of stuff that got moved all at once.
The house is in limbo, looks like it will easily be summer before we could move in and that is very frustrating.
The Quonset hut is this problem that I can’t explain, I still have stuff in there, in order to get at it, now I have to move more of Dad’s stuff because he just went and dumped off random things. So it is frustrating that no matter what I still have to deal with his **** I. Order to deal with my ****.
S&A, spinning is a great way to describe it, today I had to drive to the SG to get away, I needed a few things anyways, but I don’t like having these feelings. I have way too much to do, it kind of feels like some sort of panic attack, like everything I need to do is hitting me all at once.