It would be better to make a couple of notches on the socket and weld a couple of inserts of low or medium carbon steel to the socket. Make the insert of a size that will span the whole slot length on the big nut so the torque is spread better and not just in one small place. If you cut new nibs, there is a great possibility they will shear away again.
There is a trick I was thought a long time ago to help loosen a very tight nut. Find something similar to the socket, or maybe even the socket itself, place it over the main nut and give it a couple of whacks with a 2 or 3 lbs sledge hammer. Try to hit it squarely on the top so the force is spread evenly to the main nut and nut just to one side. Try this and then apply the impact wrench. If it does not loosens the first time, try again with the hammer, this time a little harder. The idea is to "break" the seize between the nut and the cylinder, and not to loosen it completely this way, of course, you will still need some power to take it off. This should only reduce the amount of power needed to remove the nut.
You know that threads have some play in them and when you tighten an assembly of any sort, the threads of the assembly parts get together on one side, leaving some space in the other side. In the case of the pump, when you hit the nut, you are trying to separate the nut threads making contact with the cylinder threads. For this movement, or separation to happen, the oil tank, which is the part keeping tight the nut, would have to compress a couple of thousands of an inch or so, and not much more, to make it easier to loosen the nut. This is why you need to hit it squarely, so whatever compression happens, is even. Whatever compression you get should not be noticeable to the naked eye since, at most, the total compression you could achieve, if striking very hard, would only be of a similar amount of the play between the nut and the cylinder threads, which should be very small. This, properly done, will not damage the oil tank.