Do you want the USA approach to this, or the rest of the world approach?
In the USA
A generic trailer builder moves the axles as far rearward as possible, so the onus is on the user to buy an F350 dually [or bigger] to handle the loads.
Then they need to buy an equalizer hitch as a patch up fix for too much sway[ understand that the more weight on the same springs lowers the spring frequency ]
In Aussie, NZ, Europe
They generally locate the axle placement 50/50 of the deck. So the deck is balanced.
The extra tongue weight required for the tow vehicle comes from the weight of the tongue itself.
If more weight is required onto the tow vehicle, they use a method known as "moving the car further forward" [it does have it's own wheels]
Outside the USA the tow vehicles are relatively lightweight [compared to the USA ]
It is common to see a racecar hauled to the track behind a Jap pickup or van.
One thing the world can learn from the USA is the use of electric brakes. Surge brakes are too common, and too dangerous on lightweight tow vehicles.